Who packs your parachute?

With the passing of Canadian Thanksgiving and its impetus for reflection on gratitude for the many people and things in one's life, I found myself reading the following excerpt thanks to a circulative Internet pathway prompted by a friend's post. In a series of clicks begetting clicks begetting more clicks, I arrived at Cpt Plumb's tale, digested its message, and spent some minutes thinking about who packs my parachute. 

Excerpt from Insights Into Excellence
By Captain J. Charles Plumb USNR (Ret.)

Recently, I was sitting in a restaurant in Kansas City. A man about two tables away kept looking at me. I didn’t recognize him. A few minutes into our meal he stood up and walked over to my table, looked down at me, pointed his finger in my face and said, “You’re Captain Plumb.”

I looked up and I said, “Yes sir, I’m Captain Plumb.”

He said, “You flew jet fighters in Vietnam. You were on the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk. You were shot down. You parachuted into enemy hands and spent six years as a prisoner of war.”

I said, “How in the world did you know all that?”

He replied, “Because, I packed your parachute.”

I was speechless. I staggered to my feet and held out a very grateful hand of thanks. This guy came up with just the proper words. He grabbed my hand, he pumped my arm and said, “I guess it worked.”

“Yes sir, indeed it did”, I said, “and I must tell you I’ve said a lot of prayers of thanks for your nimble fingers, but I never thought I’d have the opportunity to express my gratitude in person.”

He said, “Were all the panels there?”

“Well sir, I must shoot straight with you,” I said, “of the eighteen panels that were supposed to be in that parachute, I had fifteen good ones. Three were torn, but it wasn’t your fault, it was mine. I jumped out of that jet fighter at a high rate of speed, close to the ground. That’s what tore the panels in the chute. It wasn’t the way you packed it.”

“Let me ask you a question,” I said, “do you keep track of all the parachutes you pack?”

“No” he responded, “it’s enough gratification for me just to know that I’ve served.”

I didn’t get much sleep that night. I kept thinking about that man. I kept wondering what he might have looked like in a Navy uniform – a Dixie cup hat, a bib in the back and bell bottom trousers. I wondered how many times I might have passed him on board the Kitty Hawk. I wondered how many times I might have seen him and not even said “good morning”, “how are you”, or anything because, you see, I was a fighter pilot and he was just a sailor. How many hours did he spend on that long wooden table in the bowels of that ship weaving the shrouds and folding the silks of those chutes? 

I could have cared less…until one day my parachute came along and he packed it for me.

So the philosophical question here is this: 

How’s your parachute packing coming along? 

Who looks to you for strength in times of need? 

And perhaps, more importantly, who are the special people in your life who provide you the encouragement you need when the chips are down? 

Perhaps it’s time right now to give those people a call and thank them for packing your chute.

https://charlieplumb.com

Like the good Captain, I am forced to acknowledge that there are many a person who's toil in the background was (and is) directly linked to the blissful paradise I call 'My Life' these days, their packing job ensured that I floated gently and safely to the ground after some lofty mishap that might have scrambled my yolk. 

Although I receive many sideways looks of curiousity as I habitually greet or thank those that cross my path each day with a nod and "Hello" or a "Thanks for your help today", I'm 100% sure that there are those that ostensively deserved an extra pat on the back or some other sign of appreciation for their packing of my Life's chute, but I was too focused on other issues to ensure they were aware of my gratitude.

To all of those previously unknown souls that I have no way to contact, I see you and appreciate you.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have messages to send to those known souls in my life that I neglected to ensure they're aware of my gratitude for their packing, not the least of which are my children, both of whom opened their hearts, homes, and wallets to Joyce and I by cooking scrumptious meals over the 72 hours that just passed.

Wishing you and yours a belated Happy Thanksgiving!