Wednesday, 28 October 2020
Attitude is everything!
Sunday, 25 October 2020
I could be your dream coach!
Now that's dreaming BIG!
Recently, Joyce and I were out for a walk on a gorgeous autumn day, and passing a convenience store's window advertisement that the LottoMax was now 50 million, we started to discuss how we would go about dealing with a windfall that large. What would we treat ourselves to first? Whose lives would we alter with the sharing of our windfall? It was a very entertaining 20 minute discussion!
Early in our marriage, Joyce was inflicted with a steady stream of basketball related feeds since my passion was definitely focused on hoops. When I made the transition to secondary and started to help Ron Andrews with the Sr Boy's Rugby Team, I quickly found that there was something about the game that resonated with me. Although I remained actively involved with basketball, I found my focus was slowly morphing into a new passion.
It has not escaped my understanding that my "switching of gears" between hoops and rugby is logical since the latter gave birth to American Football, the sport that occupied much of my formative years. I would enjoy an energetic debate with anyone interested about its off-the-chart athleticism, augmented by a raw physicality, and topped with a sauce of relentless action. One of the main tenets of play in rugby is the concept of "advantage" allowing the referee to let play continue despite a rule violation or infraction, ensuring that the non-offending team be afforded the chance to use the situation to score without being awarded a penalty.
Fun Factoid: The term Fan is a shortened form of the original term used to describe a person that passionately supported a particular team, club or organization ... FANATIC.
I can whole-heartedly admit that I am an All Blacks FANATIC! Regardless of the sport, those that choose to follow it are given a smorgasbord of styles to choose from when it comes to attacking, defending, or sequencing styles of play. This allows people who endear themselves to any particular trait to passionately support teams that exemplify that trait, regardless of geography. That's how a little ol' "cornpoke" like me fell for the All Blacks way of doing business ... and it didn't hurt one little bit that their way of doing business has been Uber successful over the years that I have been avidly following professional rugby. Had I been raised in a different time, I may have fallen hard for England, Australia or South Africa ... likely not South Africa, though, since I can respect their incredible abilities but I'm not at all a fan of the way they do their business.
One thing I will say about South Africa is how badly I feel for their players following the decision to decline the invitation to participate in the 2020 Rugby Championships due to the ramifications that Covid-19 has presented to their country. With such a long lasting and heated rivalries, the absence of South Africa will be felt by Australia and New Zealand alike.
I am really good at BIG Dreams!
Maybe I can help?
Saturday, 24 October 2020
One eye on the past ...
I was recently doing a favour for a former BNC colleague, covering his absence as a supply, and part of the duties involved proctoring study hall. Lost in my thoughts about how things have morphed into an alteration of what I had known for so many years, the cobwebbed corners of my memories settled on the highlights of my years spent in elementary school like Maple Grove and Portage View. In that portion of my educational development, I still embraced the notion that Primary (grades 1-3) was where I wanted to be, but I had already come to terms with where I wanted to focus my coaching energies ... with teenagers. I regularly acknowledge that I have been blessed over my career, both inside and outside the classroom, with my greatest feelings of belonging centered in the toils of athletics. My passions for coaching was due largely to the tremendous positives I enjoyed being on the other side of the clipboard as a player ... a desire to "pay it forward". My years at MGPS and PVPS gifted me with opportunities to help a host of great young people realize their own growth and development through competition. Sharing some profound successes didn't hurt our recollections, either, as the trophies and banners piled up.
Secondary School education these days looks and feels quite a bit different from what you and I might remember from our own experiences, not the least of which is the absence of extracurriculars. That realization hit home as I sat in the vacant space of the study hall in the off chance that some students might find value in a safe place for their studies after classes were done. For my entire career, students had hurriedly rushed to the change room to prepare for the activities of that day, be it practice or competition. A deep sense of melancholy cascaded through my soul as it occurred to me that the joys, elation and satisfaction of those times are lost to today's students.
My meandering thoughts soon settled on the vivid images of those initial teams from what seems so long ago, as I recalled the faces of those that I knew had gone on to become Vikings, with MGPS and PVPS being feeder schools of Barrie North. A quick search of my laptop revealed that I didn't have many images to assist with the recollections, likely more of a statement of where we were with technology than anything else since so many of us carry a quality camera in our pocket or purse wherever we go these days. The search did reveal proof of two highlights from those years.
Based on accolades, the penultimate memory was going undefeated at the Boy's Basketball Simcoe County Champions in '93-'94, after my Portage View Panthers narrowly beat Prince of Wales (including Bryan Taylor, Derek Cool, Taylor Armstrong, to name a few) in the area finals, in a mildly controversial final. As I scan the photo at the left, I confess that age has stolen the names of some of the strapping lads enshrined in it. Some of them resurfaced in later years as they transitioned to Central, many becoming key figures in the successes of those years, but others were sent to North and I haven't seen them in almost 30 years. It's a sad reality that, in my particular case, I have great recall of faces and achievements, but I often need help with names. I'll likely catch flack for any omissions or errors, but here goes:
Back Row: Chad Hickson, Aaron Pilgrim, Matt Koster, Joe Santoro, Craig Ball, Darcy King, Yours Truly
Front Row: Ryan Griffith, Rob Boyle, Jon Miller, Adam McNamara, Joe Breedon, Darren Bryan
Social Media being what it is, I have maintained contact with a few of the boys, but there are some that I have not communicated with for quite some time. The ones that I have traded life's events with are now in or around 40 years old and are deeply in the throws of parenthood. They were all pretty awesome kids ... a couple got under my skin as a teacher but that was minor ... so I hope that life has been all they can handle. Regardless of what life has thrown at them, they can always relish that fateful Saturday in Eastview's gym when they hoisted that championship trophy.
I started my teaching career at Maple Grove. In that first year, I coached a boat load of teams but the basketball team has become a special memory. It would turn out that the players would eventually become integral to the success of Barrie North's success in the mid to late 90's, when BNC won a string of GB titles and a few trips to OFSAA. With players like Ian Bryan, Seretse + Seneca Aaron, Todd Pain, Jeff Fisher, to name a few, the MGPS Grizzlies were well represented. It pains me greatly that, for some unknown reason, I do not have any photos from that team. I am connected with a few of the lads on Social Media so maybe this post will prompt someone to share what they have.
When I was "traded" to Portage View, thanks to the roller coaster life of a young teacher, I had no idea that I would eventually return to Maple Grove in the late 90's. Upon my return, I "inherited" all of the same teams I coached that first year as more seasoned teachers stepped aside to allow me the opportunity for more growth. A talented group of athletic students was bolstered when Nick Burns, an Uber talented young man from Midhurst, arrived on the school's doorstep for his grade 8 year. If you look at the photo above on the right, you should immediately recognize that I was blessed with two "early maturers" ... Nick has the dark hair; Sean is the redhead. Nick would turn out to be the missing ingredient for success and were it not for the incredibly talented group at Codrington (Dan Eves, John Michael Irving, Ben LeRoux, to name a few), a second Simcoe County Championship might have been captured. After a narrow 3 point loss (at least I think it was) to Codrington in the semifinals, this group brought home MGPS's first County banner. Again, my memory is lacking, and I am in contact with far fewer of these lads, so hopefully no one will take offense if I can't recall their names. To those I am in contact with, feel free to share.Back Row: Jordan Sills, Craig Morris, Kevin Boyko, Nick Burns, Sean Eatch, Matt Clarke, Corey Laxtall, Yours Truly ... Front Row: Kyle Turner, Stephen Parsons, Ryan McArthur, Mike Elsey, Ryan Green, Simon Lauder
If you read this post and you know some of these fellows, can you point them my way? Coach Porter on FB or @coachsteveporter on Instagram. It would be nice to see how they are all getting on.
Sunday, 18 October 2020
Rekindling the flame
I'd really like you all to think of me as a Saint!
But that wouldn't really be truthful, now, would it?
I could be like my dear brother Rob and insist that, "I'm a delight!" But that's not always true either. MOST of the time I exude delightfulness but I think my lovely bride can confirm that I do succumb to moments that are best termed as "delightless", especially when you factor in my new compulsion of cycling and the many hours I spend in the company of me, myself and I.
This pandemic business has, for a rule follower like me, been long periods of just Joyce and I enjoying each other's company and conversation, punctuated with visits with people that we chose for our bubble like her mother Pearl, my other Andrea, and our daughter Maddi + fiancee Chris. We occasionally get a short visit from our son Keaton, but with him living in Guelph, those are rare. We dutifully stick to the magic total of 10 or less for the bubble.
Recently, with apologies to #fordnation, I decided that there was a need to expand the bubble to include my 3 brothers. We used to visit quite often, but recent years have seen that happen less than any of us would like. That is partly because we used to go to our childhood home to help our mother with the upkeep of such a stately manor (giggle) but also because we have allowed ourselves to become pretty busy with lives filled with loved ones, children, businesses, jobs, and a host of other pursuits. Lastly, the notion that we should have a pandemic bubble is burst pretty quickly when our families number well into the mid 20's if we all show up at the same place.
I have written about Dave, Rob and Mike in previous posts, and if you need to refresh your memory, you can click https://coachpsperspective.blogspot.com/2019/12/he-aint-heavy-hes-my-brother.html. With the edict that we watch who we spend time with, it's been the better part of 4 months since we actually spent some time catching up, so I decided to take the initiative and arrange a get together, just the four of us. One of the better "watering holes" in the city is Doc Malone's, just down Bradford Street from the site where Barrie Central used to sit, and the site of many a Friday "Mayor's Meetings" when I still taught there. Doc's rep as one of the better places in the city for quality chicken wings weighted heavily in the decision and all 3 brothers quickly replying to the group text that they would attend. I am very pleased to tell you all that we had a great visit, put a dent in Doc's Jameson stocks, satisfied our yearning for grease and giggled quite a lot.
The night was declared a tremendous success ...
by me ...
without an audience to argue ...
and I was the one who organized, so go figure!
I'm really not sure why we let such a lengthy time pass before doing this. Many families have made heroic efforts to stay connected through this pandemic, and while I applaud their efforts, that is not to say that I am disappointed with ours.
Quite the contrary, actually.
While I have written at length how retirement is treating me, my brothers are really, really busy:
Dave owns an Apple warranty business that is very busy as the world holds tightly to on-line life, and even has found time to venture into the world of YouTube with his prop design/manufacture business.
Rob is a supervisor at DeCast Concrete, and has only recently become an "empty-nester" with his young lads finding a place of their own.
Mike works in the freight forwarding business driving a 5-ton for OMS, winning the "I work the most award" for our family with his 60 hour weeks.
I would like to publicly state how thankful and appreciative I am that they heard the sense of longing in my messages and cleared their schedules to be there. I would be remiss if I didn't also thank our wives for being agreeable about 4 lunks sharing adult beverages on a beautiful autumn late afternoon PLUS trusting we would each be responsible in our actions. I would like it known that I rode my bicycle to Malone's and back with helmet, lights and caution on high alert with no incident.
My brothers are very, very important to me! As my brother Dave pointed out last night, and our mother wears like a badge of honour, we four are all very different people. I see that as a tremendous blessing rather than a family tragedy, and I genuinely enjoy spending time with them.
I am extremely blessed have been raised by two outstanding parents with such wonderful brothers,
to have married my best friend,
been gifted two amazing children,
to have loved my career choice,
and now have the health to enjoy this incredible retirement thing.
I'll say it again, to echo my cousin Tim Burtch, LIFE IS GOOD!
And I still think I'm more saint than devil.
Wednesday, 14 October 2020
The pen is mightier than the sword!
I've had a lot to say ... plenty of opinions.
When I reached the magic #100 post, I was pretty gosh-darned proud of myself, and I wanted to make the mark beside something that I've had on my Bucket List for quite some time. I recently checked that box when I picked up my "memoir" from The Publishing House, a book printer here in Barrie. I put the word memoir in quotes because I don't think my book really fits wonderfully into the actual definition, but I really couldn't come up with an alternate term for a collection of Blog posts that the printing service would readily recognize. TPH was awesome, economical (considering it was a single print), accessible, and looking at the finished product, a quality choice.
When I was a younger version of myself, I fancied a number of different paths as life's ambitions, but the notion that I could venture into the field of authoring was NOT even a passing daydream. The inclusion of publishing a book in my personal Bucket List came much, much later when I was inspired by my teaching colleague Dan DeSouza's Blog (http://teach1coach1.blogspot.com/) to record the memorable events of that career, as the saying goes, for the sake of posterity. I quickly surmised that writing was something that really connected with some previously undiscovered part of my soul. While I had not previously felt sufficiently competent in any particular area to author a book, a casual conversation I had with my former BNC colleague, Kevin Simms, gave birth to the notion of eventually binding those thoughts into a book. The rest, as they say, is history.
I can recall quite vividly the first time the thought of entering the field of education crossed my mind. I was in Gr 10 at Barrie Central, and influenced by the many incredible experiences I was sharing with the teachers and coaches there, I felt a strong affinity to the calling. As the high school experience unfolded, I found a few other possibilities that sparked interest, thanks largely to experiences presented through my heavy involvement with sport. I always admired my father's chosen path of medicine, and I thought perhaps following in his foot steps could be a choice. In a related line of thought, I also entertained thoughts of Physiotherapy as a choice. Being brutally honest, I was never lured by potentially lucrative nature of business or entrepreneurship, and although Police and Firefighting Services seemed interesting, I can admit that they were never considered.
I've written in previous posts how I ended up choosing Queen's University as my post secondary institution ... if you missed that one, it really boils down to a case of indoctrination as I was immersed in my father's alumni escapades in my formative years https://coachpsperspective.blogspot.com/2019/09/its-been-13-years.html ... but I may not have mentioned that my mother had a short but brilliant educational career before deciding to sacrifice all that is teaching for raising 4 active and exuberant boys. Being an active fellow, it made perfect sense to me to study Physical Education in university ... although it's now given the much fancier moniker of Kinesiology ... and while I have no regrets choosing that direction, I did quickly become aware that dreams of Medicine or Physiotherapy were, for me at least, unachievable considering the other pursuits I included in my university experience ... Ahem ... Football and Alfies (Queen's grads will understand). As I transition into a new phase and, more importantly, no longer have to trade time for money, putting thoughts together into little stories is the bauble that catches this Magpie's eye.
The process of self-publishing was FAR MORE COMPLICATED than I thought it would be. That is not to say that it was fraught with turmoil, but the host of new learning, at times, was frustrating. My Blog is produced using the on-line platform of Blogger, so copying the 100 posts into Word was the first order of business, but researching the formatting for publishing proved to be a daunting task, compounded by the search for a printer service that was both Canadian and affordable. I discovered that publishing a book has a vast amount of flexibility that includes decisions surrounding size, paper stock, cover choices and printing inks. In the end, TPH proved most helpful and I would highly recommend their services if you have a similar epiphany.
I have ZERO regrets, when I use retirement's gift of time, as I take stock in the life I chose. I truly believe that it was the perfect choice as both a calling and career, but the transition into post-career life has provided pause, bringing with it a host of other pursuits that arouse interest, the most obvious being writing.
I am very proud and satisfied with my book. You won't be finding it for sale ... it suits a personal purpose ... but that in no way tarnishes the shine of the task. I have lived through the meteoric rise of technology and its numerous revisions ... Betamax, anyone? Floppy disks, perhaps? ... and I was acutely aware that on-line Blogs could easily go the way of the Dodo. Books don't get a V2.0. Once my book was printed, it will stay that way as long as I keep it out of harm's way by fire or water. The hours I have invested in taking stock of my memories will be enshrined within the cover for a very long time.
This post is part of the second 100 so I'll be starting the sequel pretty soon since.
Friday, 9 October 2020
Where's my mask?
Wednesday, 7 October 2020
Fall's colourful canvas
For the science geeks who need to get their nerd on, the biology of the fall colours is not as complicated as you might think. Leaves are filled with molecules called pigments and when they reflect light, they are visible to our eyes depending on the wavelength of that reflected light. In the summer, the most abundant pigment is chlorophyll and it reflects green light. Chlorophyll is important for plants to make food using sunlight's energy to change CO2 and H2O into C6H12O6 (sugar), feeding the tree's needs for growth during the warmer months. During spring and summer when there is plenty of sunlight, plants expend a lot energy making or maintaining chlorophyll. In autumn when the weather turns cold, some plants stop making or maintaining chlorophyll choosing to break down chlorophyll into smaller molecules and move it out of their leaves before the leaves fall, saving the plants energy because they can reabsorb the molecules that make up chlorophyll. If the weather were to turn warm and sunny enough to grow again, the plants can use those smaller molecules to remake the chlorophyll, eliminating the need to make chlorophyll from scratch, saving a HUGE amount of energy.
As chlorophyll is broken down, other pigments start to show their colours, which is why leaves turn colour in colder seasons like fall. Some of these other pigments are called carotenoids, primarily seen as yellow and orange. Still others are called anthocyanins and are only made in the fall because they are used to protect leaves from being eaten or getting sun burnt. These pigments cause red, pink, or purples, and it's the combinations of carotenoids and anthocyanins is what creates the huge array of colours.
One of the numerous awesome advantages about retirement is time. Joyce and I have used that gift to commune with nature, recharging our connections with Mother Earth, hiking through a wide variety of trails offered within a short drive of Barrie. In my opinion, when we choose to roam through life in urban settings, it is far too easy to forget that Mother Nature is a short distance away, yet immersing yourself in it creates the truest sense of awe when beholding the beauty of the landscapes visited. My colleagues who taught geography and geology are no stranger to the natural phenomenons that have created the seemingly endless variety of formations, but Joyce and I spend a sizeable amount of our hiking conversations appreciating the mind-blowing beauty we encounter. We recently encountered the tree at the right on a hike in Torrance Barrens, just west of Gravenhurst. If you've never ventured to that area, find the time to do so ... you won't be disappointed!The old saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" rings loud and true, the latest subject being the wise assortment of fungi busily doing their part in the succession of a temperate forest life cycle. While I'm no botanist, I can certainly marvel at the diversity of the fungi we spy, with so many shapes and colours eking out an existence in the strangest of places. Thanks to a youth spent in Algonquin Forest, canoe tripping my summers away, I learned early on that not all fungi are edible and it takes a keenly educated eye to understand which can be suitable for my kitchen. Not to be outdone, we have encountered a sizeable population of mushroom foragers on our many hikes, each laden with an overfilled basket from the spoils of the hunt. They are braver than I, that is for sure. The photo at the left is just and smattering of the many we took throughout the summer's trails.I have heard it said that Canada's landscapes include all of nature's formations within her borders. From the temperate rainforests and awe inspiring Rocky Mountains of BC + AB, to the wide expanses of the prairies in SK + MN, to the geologic wonders of ON and QB's Canadian Shield, to the wetlands of the NB + NS, to the island uniqueness of NF + PEI, to the stark tundra of IQ + NWT + YK, Canada offers nature enthusiasts all they can handle. Since we live here, it's ludicrous that we don't get out of our subdivisions and experience them first hand.
Further to that point, what have you got to lose?
A little less doom and gloom from the news?
A little less Social Media pandemic fear mongering?
A little less couch potato-ness?
No pressure ... just some friendly advice from an old fart.